Thanks Chandler Thompson for this!
Identify Long Running Processes
SELECT pg_stat_activity.pid, pg_class.relname, pg_locks.transactionid, pg_locks.granted, age(now(), pg_stat_activity.query_start) AS "age" FROM pg_stat_activity, pg_locks LEFT OUTER JOIN pg_class ON (pg_locks.relation = pg_class.oid) WHERE pg_stat_activity.query <> '' AND pg_locks.pid = pg_stat_activity.pid AND pg_stat_activity.pid <> pg_backend_pid() ORDER BY age DESC LIMIT 10;
If you need to stop a process try to CANCEL first, as Terminate can have some unwanted effects.
Only if absolutely necessary